POST 53: Making a Difference by Helping Others
POST 53
Making a Difference by Helping Others
I want to make a difference in people’s lives, not necessarily like a big world-changing type of thing, but so that people will think, “Oh, wow, that was kind,” or “that was cool for her to do.”
Sue
Making a difference in the world is a high priority for teenagers. Most teens want to leave a positive mark in some way. Maybe you’ve felt like this too.
One way that many teens are doing this is by helping others.
In his Boy Scout troop, church, and family, Steve’s desire is to “help as many people in as many ways as I can. . . . Whether it is talking to someone who needs to get something off their chest or helping someone move stuff out of their house, I find purpose any time and any place I can help someone else.”
Arthur describes those moments when he feels he’s doing what he is meant to do: “It’s when I’m teaching people. I never feel stressed when somebody at school comes to me for help learning music or math they can’t grasp on their own.”
Janelle serves as a leader in her school’s Black Student Union. In that role, she spearheaded a campaign on African American mental health struggles.
Daniel is a junior who experienced homelessness for a year when his dad was ill and unable to work. Daniel is mindful of the kids who are homeless in his neighborhood. He rattled off the effects of homelessness—ranging from pollution to crime—that he had seen and encountered himself. Now that Daniel’s family can afford an apartment, he’s raising money to help those who are homeless, picking up trash to keep the streets cleaner, and advocating with city officials for more homeless shelters.
How Can You Help Others?
What sticks out in these various stories is that teens are tapping into their passions when helping others. Whether it’s homelessness, mental health, or tutoring—teens aren’t trying to do everything for everyone. They are focusing on what they love.
Making a difference doesn’t have to be “a big world-changing type of thing,” as Sue pointed out. You can make a difference in your circle of influence.
So when you think about how you want to make a difference in the world, instead of getting overwhelmed with the prospects, think of how you already enjoy helping people. It could be as simple as assisting with chores or letting someone borrow your pen. When we help people, their burdens are lifted and they feel seen and loved.
READING GOD’S WORD
Carry each other’s burdens and so you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Galatians 6:2)
Journaling Questions
How do you like to help others?
What do you like about helping others?
What’s one way you can use your story, life experience, or passions to help others?
Pray This Prayer
God, thank you for the opportunity to help others in big and small ways. It all matters. Help me to discover my passions so I can make a difference in this world by helping others. In Jesus’ name, amen.
SOMETHING TO TRY
This week, offer to help someone in a small and simple way. Ideas include:
THE TAKEAWAY
You can make a difference by helping in ways you’re already wired to help.