Chapter 11 · You Were Planned for God's Pleasure

Becoming Best Friends with God

Rick Warren · Day 11

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    God desires an intimate friendship with you, which is one of the most profound truths of your relationship with Him.

    Initially, Adam and Eve experienced this close connection in Eden, but sin disrupted that relationship. Notable figures in the Old Testament had glimpses of friendship with God, but it was Jesus who restored direct access to Him, allowing us to become His friends through grace and sacrifice.

    Becoming a Best Friend of God Through Constant Conversation

    Developing a close relationship with God requires ongoing communication rather than just periodic church attendance or quiet time. God wishes to be included in every part of your life, fostering a continuous dialogue with Him throughout daily activities. This practice, reminiscent of Brother

    Lawrence's approach to "Practicing the Presence of God," involves maintaining awareness of God's presence during all tasks, transforming them into acts of communion.

    Key principles include:

    - Engage in conversational prayers regularly throughout the day, using short phrases or Scripture to maintain focus on God's presence.

    - Create reminders, such as notes or alarms, to recall God's presence regularly.

    - Shift your perspective to view daily activities as opportunities to honor God, reinforcing the idea that worship can be a lifestyle rather than just an occasional event.

    Through Continual Meditation

    The second method for establishing friendship with God involves meditating on His Word. This means to reflect on who God is and what He has said, fostering a deeper understanding of Him. Meditation is a focused form of thinking that can be practiced anywhere, encouraging you to replace worry with contemplation of Bible verses.

    To cultivate this habit:

    - Regularly ponder Scripture you've read or memorized, turning it over in your mind similar to how one would ruminate on worries.

    - Just as Job and David treasured God's words, cultivate a deep value for His teachings, allowing them to inform and enrich your life.

    - Make a practice of reviewing biblical truths and listening for God's guidance, leading to a more intimate understanding of His heart.

    Conclusion

    Before moving on to the next chapter, embrace these practices of conversation and meditation today. Prayer allows you to speak to God, while meditation lets you hear

    Him-both are vital for deepening your friendship with Him.

    Point to Ponder.

    God wants to be my best friend.

    Verse to Remember.

    "Friendship with God is reserved for those who reverence him." Psalm 25:14a (LB)

    Question to Consider.

    What can I do to remind myself to think about God and talk to him more often throughout the day?

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