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Study Seven: The Natural Means

Study Seven: The Natural Means

STUDY SEVEN

The Natural Means

Read John 10:1–18

We are going along in life, doing the usual things, when suddenly we come up against a thing we are not sure about. We need guidance. The temptation is to stop everything and ask for a sign. Once in a while this is the thing to do. Gideon did it when he put out his fleece, asking that on the first night it should be wet with dew while the ground around remained dry and that the opposite should happen on the second night. But far more often we find God leading men while they are doing what they normally are supposed to do. When the Lord called them, David was taking care of sheep, the boy Samuel was serving in the temple, and Matthew was collecting taxes.

The author identifies ten natural means that God uses to guide us. They are duty, timing, God’s calling you by name, human agents, gifts and abilities, desires, our frame of reference, circumstances, advice from friends, and being in a position where we must choose the harder of two things.

Duty

Key thought: “Do the next thing” is one of the best pieces of advice I have ever had. It works in any kind of situation and is especially helpful when we don’t know what to do. What if we don’t even know what the “next thing” is? We can find something. Some duty lies on our doorstep. The rule is do it. The doing of that thing may open our eyes to the next.

  • Read Ecclesiastes 12:13. According to this passage, what is your duty?



  • In Luke 17:7–10, Jesus puts duty in an interesting perspective. Summarize what he says.



  • List some of your daily duties.



    How is performing them a way of accepting God’s guidance?




  • Timing

    Key thought: God never showed me his will until the time came. I realize that nearly all of my trouble with finding out the will of God came because I wanted it too soon. I like to plan. I like to have things mapped out well in advance, and uncertainty of any sort puts me on edge. Perhaps it is for this very reason God has often asked me to wait until the last minute.

  • Describe a situation in your life when you were impatient to have the Lord reveal his will.



  • What happened when he finally revealed his will?



  • Could you see that his timing was better than yours? How?



  • God Calls Us by Name

    Key thought: We may not hear an audible voice, but we will find that the Lord knows how to call us. He knows the best way to get our attention, and if we are ready to listen or to be shown, we will hear or see whatever it is he has chosen as his means.

  • Deuteronomy 15:5 says in part to “carefully obey the voice of the Lord your God, to observe with care all [his] commandments” (NKJV). To what does this passage link hearing God’s voice?




    Do you have to hear an audible voice to obey God’s commands?





  • What does Revelation 3:20 tell you to do when you hear the voice of the Lord?





  • Human Agents

    Key thought: God guides his people always in relationship to one another, like a flock. This is perhaps one of the most important things to remember when we are looking for personal guidance. We ought to look first of all to those with whom we have some special relationship.

  • Read Philemon 8–16. How did God use Paul to persuade Philemon to do the right thing?




  • Study Romans 13:1–3. According to this passage, what is your duty to the civil authorities?




    How does God use governing authorities to show you the right thing to do?





  • Who are the most influential people in your life?




  • Gifts and Abilities

    Key thought: When I am looking for the right direction, I ought to take into account what experience I have had, what gifts or propensities are mine, and what the direction of my life seems to have prepared me for.

  • Study Romans 12:3–8. According to this passage, what gifts are you to use?




    Write out verse 3.





    What does this verse mean to you?




  • Describe an occasion when you tried to do something for which you didn’t have the proper abilities.



    What were the results?




  • How does your knowing what your gifts and abilities are allow God to guide you in your daily life?



  • Desires

    Key thought: I may now and then actually want what God wants. This is likely to be the case more and more as I practice obedience, but it can also be a very simple and natural thing.

  • For a long time, I took the view that whatever I might want to do could not possibly be what God wanted me to do.

    This is a typical reaction among many Christians. Why do you suppose this is?




    Have you ever felt this way?




    If so, why?





  • Carefully study Psalm 37:4. Write out this verse.




    What condition does this verse place on receiving the desires of your heart?




  • Your Own Frame of Reference

    Key thought: God leads me, I believe, within my own frame of reference. What I am, where I am, and how I got there all have a great deal to do with what my frame of reference is. God can be counted on to choose the right avenue of approach.

  • What is a frame of reference?



    Briefly describe what yours is.





  • As a youth it hardly occurred to me that God needed to meet different people in different ways, or that his truth could take forms that would be unrecognizable to me.

    How might God guide, say, a Lebanese Christian in a way different from the way in which he guides you?





  • Circumstances

    Key thought: If we try to trace what look to us like the significant events or turning points in any life, we will not go far before we find it was in the ordinary course that the extraordinary happened.

  • Read Romans 8:28. What does this verse say about the way God uses circumstances?



  • The Bible is full of accounts of how God used circumstances to guide people and accomplish his will. One such account is found in Genesis 40–41. Where was Joseph when this story begins?




    Who was in prison with him?





    How did God use the imprisonment of Pharaoh’s cupbearer to eventually release Joseph from prison and place him in a position of authority in Egypt?





    What does this tell you about the way God guides the lives of his people?





  • Describe a situation in your own life when God used a set of circumstances to guide you in an unanticipated direction.





  • Advice from Friends

    Key thought: It is a good thing to talk over a decision with a friend. The times we find ourselves entirely alone in making a decision are rare. Nearly always there are others who will be affected by what we decide, and usually some of these can be consulted.

  • Sometimes sound advice can avert tragedy. Read the account of David, Nabal, and Abigail in 1 Samuel 25. What advice did Abigail give David?




    What positive effect did it have?






  • Not all advice is good advice. In 1 Kings 12:1–17 good advice was rejected and bad advice accepted. Briefly describe what happened.




    Why do you suppose King Rehoboam chose to listen to such poor advice from his friends?





  • Describe an occasion when God used advice from a friend to help you make a wise decision.




  • How can you tell the difference between good and bad advice from a friend?




  • The Harder of Two Things

    Key thought: Sometimes we have narrowed down the possibilities to two, but there seems no way to choose one of them. Choose the harder of the two ways. If you have eliminated all other possibilities and there still seem to be two that might please God, choose the more difficult one.

  • When facing two alternatives, why is it important for you to choose the one that is more difficult?




  • Describe an occasion when choosing the harder alternative turned out to be the better choice.




  • Applying God’s Truth to Your Life

  • List three important decisions you are presently facing. What means are available to help you make each of these decisions?



  • Describe a decision one of your friends is facing. Based on what you have learned in this study, what advice would you give in helping your friend make the right decision?



  • Of the ten natural means that God uses to help people make their decisions, which have you found most beneficial in the choices you have faced?



    Why did you find these to be the most beneficial?




  • To Do This Week

    Identify the most difficult choice you are now facing. Each day pray that the Lord will make you aware of a particular means he is using to help you make that decision. As God reveals these means, be sure to thank him for his guidance in leading you to make the right decision.

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