Chapter 3 of 12

Chapter II

Chapter II

THE HINDU WIDOW BEGINS HER LIFE-WORK: LESSONS LEARNED IN ENGLAND AND AMERICA.

" Thy words were found, and I did eat them ; and Thy word was unto me the joy and rejoicing of mine heart:

for I am called by Thy name, O Lord God of Hosts."

Jer. XV. i6. RAMABAFS position in her widowed state dif-

fered from that of the millions of her fellow-

countrywomen when bereaved of their natural

protectors, in that she was not ignorant of the world and

its ways, and by the fact that she had an education fit-

ting her to open out a path of usefulness for herself.

Accordingly, we find her, within a few months of the

death of her husband, at Poona, the ancient capital of

the Marathas, having resumed her former occupation as

lecturer on the Education of Women.

The evil custom of confining high-caste women with-

in the four walls of the Zenana, which prevails in the

North-West Provinces and other parts of India, is un-

known among the Brahmins of the Maratha country.

In Poona and Bombay all Maratha women are free to

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walk and ride abroad^ to see and to be seen. This, and

the fact that Ramabai had relatives and family connec-

tions in Poona, drew her to recommence her career as

a lecturer at this great centre of Brahminism.

In prosecuting her object, Ramabai took her stand

upon her knowledge of the Shastras, and maintained

that their ancient teaching enjoined the instruction of women ; and that the neglected and ignorant condition

of women was a modern descent into degradation. She

advocated that high-caste girls should be instructed be-

fore marriage in Sanskrit and the vernacular. She also

strongly condemned the practice of child-marriage.

Ramabai's lectures made a wide impression upon the

best families in Poona, and, through her instrumen-

tality, a Society of high-caste women was formed, hav-

ing for its object the education of girls and tl;,e post-

ponement of marriage to maturity. Encouraged by

the success of this project in Poona, Ramabai went

from city to city throughout the Maratha country,

forming branches of the Arya Mahila Somaj, as this woman's Society was called. Ramabai also busied her-

self with writing and translating, in the endeavour to

create a literature helpful to her cause. In her leisure

hours she gave lessons on morality and religion to the women of Poona.

It was on Ramabai's heart during this time to start

an institution for the education and succour of helpless

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widows. In this class she saw, in faith, the future

teachers of the high-caste girls. But she failed in get-

ting the necessary financial support from the Hindu

community to put this cherished plan into execution.

It was here and now, however, that she rescued her first

widow. The girl was a waif of the Poona streets, a

Brahmin child of twelve years, cast out by her hus-

band's relatives after his death. For several years she

had lived the life of a street arab. Her appeal to

Ramabai was not on the ground of starvation and

homelessness, but on the ever-increasing difficulty of

keeping her budding womanly honour intact. To her

homely face and strange defective eyes she probably

owed her escape from the harpies of vice thus far.

Ramabai was poor herself, but she took the girl in,

to share whatever food she had, and to protect her from

wrong and outrage. She is now a useful Bible-

woman, labouring in connection with Ramabai's settle-

ment at Mukti.

In 1882 the British Government appointed a Com-

mission to inquire into the question of Education in

India. The terms of reference included the definite and

separate question of female education; and when the

Commission visited Poona, it was invited to a reception

by over three hundred Brahmin women connected with

Ramabai's Arya Mahila Somaj, who with their children

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assembled in the Town Hall at Poona. Ramabai was

the speaker, and her subject the Education of Women.

Subsequently Ramabai was examined before the

Commission, and the President was so struck with her

evidence that he had it translated from the Marathi and

printed in English. In her replies to the questions

put by the Commission, Ramabai told of her father's

strenuous efforts for the education of women, of her

brother's views, and those of her late husband, who

was a Vakil,^ and fellow of Calcutta University. She

told the Commission that she felt herself bound to the

end of her life to labour on behalf of her country-

women. She advocated that Girls' Schools should

have specially trained women teachers ; that women in-

spectors should also be employed; and concluded with

a forcible appeal that Government should make pro-

vision for the study of medicine by women, doctors of

their own sex being, in her opinion, one of the greatest

needs of the women of India.

The publicity given to the proceedings of the Edu-

cation Commission brought Ramabai into notice in cir-

cles other than the Marathi Brahmins. She now began

to feel that she herself needed more training and experi-

ence in regard to the education of others. At this time

she was unacquainted with the English language, al-

though so well versed in those of India; and the idea

*A lawyer.

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that she should go to England for study and training

forced itself again and again upon her mind.

Ever since the death of her brother, and more par-

ticularly again after her husband died, Ramabai had felt

in an undefined manner that God was guiding her.

Disillusioned by painful experiences during her girl-

hood from the superstitions of Hinduism, she was still

working from the Hindu standpoint. She knew but

little of Christianity, and had no thought of becoming a

Christian, but believed in an all-powerful deity whom

she felt to be guiding her. Her mind became possessed

of a divine unrest ; and given the opportunity, she one

day found herself bound for England—going forth, as

she says, like Abraham, not knowing whither she went.

Arriving in England with her baby daughter, Ramabai

was kindly received by a Church of England Sisterhood

at Wantage, a community having a mission at Poona.

Here she remained for a year, studying the English

language, and adding to her stock of information in

many ways.

Four years before, when in Calcutta, Ramabai had

made her first acquaintance with the Christian Scrip-

tures. Keshub Chunder Sen, the founder of the

Brahmo sect of Reformed Hindus, had given her a lit-

tle book of precepts from all religions, most of which

were from the New Testament. This greatly attracted

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her ; and later she possessed herself of a complete Bible,

and commenced to read it.

At Wantage, time and opportunity to study the sub-

ject were afforded ; and here Ramabai confessed herself

a Christian, and was baptized, with her little daughter,

according to the custom of the Church of England, on

September 29th, 1883.

The difference that Ramabai at that time discerned

between the good precepts of the Hindu Scriptures and

the Gospel of Jesus Christ she thus expressed : " While

the old Hindu Scriptures have given us some beautiful

precepts of loving, the New Dispensation of Christ has

given us the grace to carry these principles mto prac-

tice; and that makes all the difference in the world.

The precepts are like a steam engine on the track, beau-

tiful and with great possibilities ; Christ and His Gospel

are the steam, the motive power that can make the

engine move."

After the year spent at Wantage, Ramabai received

the appointment of Professor of Sanskrit in the Chelt-

enham Ladies' College, where she found opportunity to

study mathematics, natural science, and English liter-

ature. The immediate goal of her mental horizon was

at this time bounded by a possible Government appoint-

ment in connection with the education of women in

India.

36 PANDITA RAMABAI

A year and a half was spent at Cheltenham, when an

invitation to visit America opened out a new vista be-

fore Ramabai's eyes, and led to important results. A

high-caste Hindu lady from Poona, a friend and relative

of Ramabai, had followed her in her determination to be

of use to the millions of their fellow-countrywomen.

Anaridibai Joshi had reached America, and studied

medicine in the Women's Medical College of Philadel-

phia. She was now about to graduate as M.D., and the

invitation to Ramabai was to witness this ceremony.

Ramabai's mind was agitated, she did not desire any

interruption to her studies ; but finally came to the con-

clusion that it would be a help to her life-work to visit

America. She went with the intention of staying a

few weeks. She stayed almost three years.

The public school system of America—including

girls as well as boys, and the Kindergarten, training

hand as well as head—greatly attracted Ramabai. She

felt she must remain and study these ; and in the course

of a few months she enrolled herself for a course of

Kindergarten study in a Philadelphia training school.

In Rachel Bodley, A.M., M.D., the Dean of the Wo-

men's Medical College in Philadelphia, Ramabai found a

true friend, and with her also a home. Dr. Bodley

had sheltered Anandibai Joshi, and helped her in her

studies ; and the sad news of the untimely death of that

devoted little Indian woman, a few months after her re-

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turn to her husband and home in India, bound Dr.

Bodley more closely to Ramabai, and evoked in her a

keener interest in her plans for the future. For now all

Ramabai's old desire to benefit her countrywomen by

founding schools which combined the training of the

hand with that of the head, revived; and forsaking

plans which regarded only the higher education of the

few women in Government High Schools or Colleges

in India, she concentrated her thoughts upon native

schools founded by and for native women.

While living with Dr. Bodley and studying Kinder-

garten methods, Ramabai wrote her famous book, en-

titled, " The High-Caste Hindu Woman." Here she

portrayed the true history of countless thousands of

lives doomed by a perverted and decaying religious sys-

tem of lifelong ignorance ; to child-marriage with all its

evils; to the absorption of young wives into the joint

family system ; to the terrible abuse and degradation of

widowhood; and to the re-action of this treatment of women upon social and family life in India.

Dr. Bodley prefaced the book with an admirable

treatise, sketching the devoted life and early death of

Anandibai Joshi, relating Ramabai's history, and sup-

porting and enforcing her appeal for help to go back to

India and found an educational home for young

widows, who in their turn should go forth as teachers

to enlighten the darkness of their countrywomen.

*. *'

CHAPTER HI.

DREAMS BECOME REALITY; THE SCHOOL FOR HIGH-

' CASTE WIDOWS ESTABLISHED IN INDIA.

"He brought them forth also with silver and gold."—PsA.

cv. 37.

I ^HE silence of a thousand years has been

44 r

I broken! " aptly declared Dr. Bodley in her

preface to Ramabai's volume, entitled,

" The High-Caste Hindu Woman."

Missionaries and travellers had had many a story to

tell of the inaccessibility of Hindu women immured

within the four walls of the Zenana. Those who had

gained access behind the purdah, or mingled with the

castes not entirely secluded, had felt the wall of separa-

tion raised by Oriental customs; so that, as yet, but a

corner of the vail had been lifted. But now a voice

had arisen from among themselves to tell with intimate

knowledge how the ironbound customs of centuries had

ground woman into a position of servitude and igno-

rance ; making her at one and the same time the slave of

man, and his greatest hindrance in rising to the higher

plane of life held out by the religion of Jesus Christ.

DREAMS BECOME REALITY 39

The book opened the way for Ramabai to the hearts

of a class of cultured, earnest American women, who

became deeply interested in the story of the imprisoned,

contracted lives of India's daughters. Many of these

were the abolitionists of America's great anti-slavery

struggle of the previous decade. In the ranks of the

Woman's Christian Temperance Union Ramabai found

much help and encouragement. The late Frances E.

Willard became her warm friend, and through her in-

fluence much interest was evoked.

Ramabai's lifelong desire to educate Hindu widows

that through them a door might be opened into the

dense darkness of Hinduism—now took tangible shape.

Ramabai travelled up and down the United States,

speaking to large audiences here, and drawing-room

meetings there, gaining interest and forming circles of

help; at the same time exercising an alert eye with re-

gard to every kind of educational enterprise with which

she came in contact, noting many points for adaptation

to the work in India later on.

At an overflowing meeting held in Boston in May,

1887, when the audience was moved to tears and laugh-

ter by her pathos and keen wit, a provisional committee

of women was formed to consider Ramabai's plans—to

act with her, and report later. On December 13th of

the same year, at another public meeting, the Provision-

al Committee presented a report that was accepted, a

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list of officers who were elected, a constitution that was

adopted; and the temporary Association became an

organized body—it seemed to spring into existence

and Ramabai saw her long-cherished plans take definite

form. That night her joy was too great for sleep;

when found sobbing in her room, she exclaimed, " I am

crying for joy that my dream of years has become a

reahty." The President and Vice-President of the As-

sociation comprised members of five denominations ; the

Board of Trustees, composed of some of the best busi-

ness and professional men of Boston, was equally un-

sectarian, as was the Executive Committee, formed en-

tirely of women.

Among converts to Christianity in India, especially

those of the older Missions, there is a frequent trend to-

wards a European style of living, fostered in some cases,

without any intention on the part of the missionary, by

the life in Christian boarding-schools, conducted after

European plans. This, by setting Western ideals of

life before the Indian Christian, leads to discontent with

the simple native customs of food and dress. Their

incomes will not support them in Western luxuries;

and, in consequence, the converts find themselves fre-

quently in debt and difficulty.

This aspect of conversion to Christianity is looked

upon with great disfavour by the Hindu community;

and by its more ignorant members is regarded as part

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of the Christian religion. Ramabai keenly felt this

anomaly ; and realizing that Christianity was an Asiatic

religion, and as such ought to be adaptable to India

without Western additions, she wisely determined to

maintain her Indian habits in all customs of food and

dress. She would show her country people, on her

return to India, that to become Christians, it was not

necessary to denationalise themselves.

In fact, Ramabai's strict vegetarian diet must have

caused some difficulty to her American hostesses, even

as their grand dinners, of which she coul4 eat so little,

were a source of embarrassment to her. Brought up

as she had been, with an intense repugnance to any

kind of flesh-eating, it was an ordeal to be seated at

table in the place of honour next to the host, with a

smoking roast of meat in front of him (the smell of

which overpowered her) , and to have to decline every-

thing except a little bread and plain vegetable. But

Ramabai, persevered in her determination, and returned

to India as much of a Brahmin in food and habits, save

as to their religious aspects, as she left it.

Ramabai having become a Christian, placed her, how-

ever, in a more serious difficulty than that of food, viz.,

the place in regard to religion which her educational

home for widows should occupy. She had left her

country in full sympathy with the more advanced Hin-

du reformers ; she was returning, having cut herself off

42 PANDITA RAMABAI

from their sympathies by becoming a Christian. But

she yearned more than ever to reach her own people;

and the only method that approved itself to her judg-

ment was to offer an education neutral as to religious

teaching. Her plans in this respect were fully criticised

as she went about expounding them to American audi-

ences.

Many spiritually-minded people committed to mis-

sionary enterprise could not see why Ramabai should

not cast in her lot with some Mission, and open an

avowed Mission School. But Ramabai was strongly

of opinion that no Mission School would reach the class

for which her heart was aching. The people were too

prejudiced against Christianity. Their widows were

taught that it was better to commit suicide and be sure

of heaven, rather than enter any institution established

for the purpose of turning them from their ancestral

faith.

In the midst of this controversy, Ramabai cast no

slur on Missions or Mission work ; but she rallied many

to her standard outside of the ordinary supporters of

Missions. In an interview with the representative of a

Chicago daily paper, in December, 1887, on being asked

to give her opinion on the good done by missionaries in

India, Ramabai said : " Missionaries are showing by

their precepts and example that Christianity does not

mean going into other countries and taking possession

DREAMS BECOME REALITY 43

of them, putting taxes upon the people, introducing the

liquor traffic, and gaining a great deal of revenue from

the infamous traffics in rum and opium. As their

numbers multiply they are gaining a foothold in the

country, and also commanding the love and respect of

the people by their earnestness in missionary work.

. . . And finally, the blessed Gospel will be every-

where preached by the missionaries; and I hope some

day we shall owe to their labours and their prayers a

great army of Christian apostles among our people who

will eventually regenerate the whole Hindu nation

through their lives and their teachings."

In the same interview, with a variety of illustrations,

Ramabai enforced her belief that the work she desired

to do would prepare the way of missionaries by enabling

widows to rise to an independent position in which they

would be free to accept Christianity as she herself had

*' Christ," argued Ramabai, " came to give dif-

done.

ferent gifts to different people—some He made proph-

ets ; some He made preachers ; some He made teachers.

Since I have become a Christian I have thought He has

given me the gift of being a sweeper. I want to sweep away some of the old difficulties that lie before the mis-

sionaries in their efforts to reach our Hindu widows."

Ramabai further declared her belief that having the

widows brought under the influence of her school, with

the Bible placed in the hands of every pupil, Christian

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women as teachers, and Christian literattire in its

Hbrary, many would be won to see the beauty of Chris-

tianity, and embrace it for themselves. Thus it came to pass that the platform of her work was declared to be neutral as to its religious teaching. Her Hindu pupils were to have full liberty to retain

thelt caste, and perform their religious observances.

In due time the " Ramabai Association " was com-

plete. Its headquarters were in Boston; its base,

" Ramabai Circles,'' in towns and cities all over the

country. Members of circles pledged themselves to

give or collect a certain sum annually for ten years, to

equip and sustain a home and school in India for the

education and support of high-caste Hindu widows.

In May, 1888, Ramabai bade good-bye to her Boston

friends and went on to Canada, and thence to the Pacific

Coast, gaining friends and forming circles all the way.

In November of the same year she left America for India

via San Francisco and Hong Kong, and thus got a

glimpse of China on the way. She arrived in Bombay

on February ist, 1889, and chose that city in which to commence her work. Six weeks later the Widow's Home was quietly inaugurated in a house just back of

the Chowpatty Sea-face. The modest announcement

of " Sharada Sadan " (Abode of Wisdom) was placed

on a board on its frontage. School commenced with

two pupils, and the alphabet in three languages,

DREAMS BECOME REALITY 45

Marathi, English, and Sanskrit. One of the pupils

had thrice attempted suicide, restrained only by the fear

of being again born a woman. She is now the educat-

ed wife of a professor in Poona College, and a happy

mother.

The Hindu reform circles in Bombay and Poona gave Ramabai a welcome ; her assurances of neutrality as to.

religion were generally, though cautiously, accepted;

and, in a short time, more pupils of the desired class were obtained. Ramabai went in and out among the Hindus, and had frequent opportunities of lecturing as

of yore, when she always commanded a large audience.

Miss Soonderbai H. Powar, at that time engaged in work among women in connection with one of the Bombay Missions, first brought me news of Ramabai and

her work. She had visited Ramabai and been introduced to the pupils in residence. Her calling as a

teacher of the Bible had been explained to them, and an opportunity to give a talk on the Bible and Christian-

ity was afforded her. Ramabai's little daughter, Manorama, then about nine years old, had won Soon-

derbai's heart, by insisting that she was a Christian, and that the Bible was her Shastra.

In the course of a year or so, Ramabai moved the Sharada Sadan to Poona, as being a more healthy place,

cheaper, and more suitable in every way for the work than Bombay. In 1892, through the continued gener-

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osity of her American friends, she was enabled to pur-

chase a commodious bungalow in a fine position in

Poona, standing in about two acres of ground, which

made an admirable home for the Sharada Sadan.

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